Learning How to Drive

First Car, Student Drivers, Safety First, Drunk Driving, MADD

They Might Be Thinking:

  • How will I pass my written exam?
  • How many times will I need to take the driving portion of the exam?
  • What are all of the requirements to get my license?
  • What proof of identity will I need to provide?
  • Is there a vision screening process?
  • What part of driving should I learn first - braking, steering, using my mirrors, etc. ?
  • How do I coordinate the brake and gas pedals?
  • Should I learn to drive a standard/manual transmission car first?
  • What do I need to bring to a driver's license test?
  • What documents are needed to get a driver's license?
  • How do you get your driver's license?
  • Can you drive by yourself if you're 18 and have a permit?
  •  Can I drive while using my cell phone? 

Words That Might Be Encouraging:

  • Always wear your seat belt.
  • Don't drink and drive.
  • I am here to answer any questions you might have.
  • Don't let anyone drive your car unless they have a license and are insured to drive your vehicle.
  • Stay calm and always know that your brakes are your friends.
  • You are in command. Take it one step at a time.
  • If you ever need someone to give you a lesson, I am happy to help.
  • Always check your vehicle to make sure it is working properly.
  • Don’t abuse your vehicle. 
  • Check mirrors and gauges. 
  • Make a positive glance over your shoulder. 
  • Scan parked cars and back up carefully. 
  • Check wheel-to-ground reference. 
  • Allow 2-4 seconds following time. 
  • Check the road 10-12 seconds ahead. 
  • Check mirrors every 5-8 seconds. 
  • Pick a point of decision (point of not stopping) at traffic lights. 
  • Stop so you can see the rear tires of the car ahead touching the ground. 
  • Count “1-2-3-delay” after the car ahead starts to move. 
  • Look left-right-left at all intersections. 
  • Use your horn to establish eye contact. 
  • Don’t forget the hazards of rural and in-plant driving.

Words That Might Be Discouraging:

  • Driving is relatively easy.
  • Once you pass the written exam, everything else will be a breeze.
  • I am not really sure why you are struggling.
  • You just have to put it all together now.
  • Are you trying to kill us?!
  • STOP THE CAR!
  • Haven't you learned anything from all the years I've been driving you around?
  • Wearing your seat belt isn't a big deal.
  • Don't worry about how I am driving; you need to follow the laws.
  • It's okay to drive 5-10 miles above the speed limit.
  • Now that you have your license, you are all set.
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